The challenge part two is turning out to be a totally different adventure to the first. As I said on the call earlier the first challenge was all so new and daunting, and I was like a sponge absorbing as much information as I could. Trying everything out, writing notes, doing my homework fiddling with new recipes, walking, actually jogging and just quietly working away at it all. Getting my health sorted and understanding what was going/not going on as it should.
When Damian asked what the difference between the two challenges is I realised I hadn’t actually seen too much change when in fact there is. From day one I knew this is the last time I have to loose weight and the first challenge focused on getting the weight off to see the results. Challenge two is the bedding down of knowledge and practices of the first challenge. It’s a much clearer picture of the lifestyle choices versus the diet to loose weight. This time round I have the grounding and it’s fun to use that as I work towards the new me. I’ve done different experimenting to see what works and what doesn’t. I question myself a lot more, basically working out what makes me tick and what my old triggers were. The sense of achievement so far is such a great motivator that I can feel the final kg. I realise also that I don’t need rewards along the way as the end result is one HUGE reward and a new wardrobe. For me a reward now would be a crutch and another learned practice to get over.
I realise too that the comfort zone I thought I was in was in reality deferred living. Going to Ceroc and suggesting that I thought was out of my comfort zone was old thinking and in hindsight walking in there that first night was no problem.
I now make better definitive choices, no hand wringing and angst these days. I do or I don’t. If it needs thinking about I go for a walk. My reading material is pretty thought provoking and growing me as well.
Mmmmm what happens next?
Alison
June 10, 2009 at 1:43 am
Your blog is thought provoking as always mate! I get such great ideas and things to ponder reading your own ponderings. Thanks for sharing your journey with us last night! Enjoy the rubgy too!
Catch you next week!
Loving the Ali that you’ve become!
Bex
June 13, 2009 at 11:05 am
Hi Ali,
hey friend, you are so thought provoking, wish I had just a wee bit of it. I did buy that book, but have not got very far into it yet.. had trouble sorting out what my life purpose is… got stuck on that one and still haven’t sorted it out, lol.
I am so sorry, I hadn’t realised when we were coming to Chch last, that you had replied to my email and invited us round for a meal, that would have been awesome, but as you know time went so quickly, would have loved longer with you, as you are such a clever cookie, and are still so inspring, motivated and energised.. I feel so dowdy beside you… but it will get better!
I am coming to the retreat, so you will be able to take me in hand.. need huge lessons in how to have a life, lol. (Don’t know how I will pay off the creditcard, but hey, as Grant said I need to do this… so I am.
Can’t wait to spend more time with you, your great habits can rub off on me!
Keep up the awe inspiring work.
Lots of love, dawn
June 16, 2009 at 8:51 am
Hi Ali, great blog and great to hear you on the phone too! sounds like you’re sorted for the long run
Desi